Scenario 1: You forgot(or don’t want) to go offline and you are projecting your screen on projector with some serious discussion in a busy conference room and bang! an old friend messages you on messenger “Hi Sexy“
Scenario 2: You are sitting with someone say Mr. A and another friend say Mr. B sends you a message about Mr. A. You know what kind of message I’m talking about
These kind of sudden and uninvited chat messages can disturbing at times. So in one of my previous organization we had a protocol for chatting. I found it very helpful and slowly many of my friends have started following it.
Here’s how it goes, PLEASE try to follow the same when chatting with me and may be others too. This will make the online life bit comfortable for you and your friends
[?] To start a conversation, send a question mark only. Yes a simple ” ? ” only. This can mean anything as per your understanding like “Can we chat?” or “are you there?”.
Now the answer to this question can be yes no or later
[Y] So if the answer is YES, the person replies ” y “. Which means “I’m comfortable chatting with you at this moment, tell me”
[N] If the answer is NO for reasons like “I’m busy”, or “Can’t chat” or whatever, the person replies ” n “. If you get a ” n ” DO NOT send any more message, not even “OK, I’ll ping you later” It like saying DO NOT DISTURB
 or for that matter any number like ” 10 ” – “15 ” means busy right now, lets talk after 5 (or 10-15) minutes. This comes very handy when you want to chat but because you are preoccupied in something which you can’t leave in between.
[ ] If in case there is no reply from the other side, there can be 2 reasons. Too busy to say a ” n ” or not near the computer. The best option in this case is treat it as ” n ” and DO NOT disturb
Looking at so many shortcuts, we devised another shortcut. It was “ b ” this time which means BYE that comes at the end of conversation.
I strongly recommend all my friends to use this protocol while starting a chat with me. Share the protocol with your friends and see the difference.